Sexual Liberation Coaching
Your orgasms are trying to tell you something!
I used to have 10 orgasms a session...
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Yep, TEN!
I thought that meant I was thriving sexually! A liberated woman!
I'd brag about it to friends, buy the newest vibrator or dildo, and thought that meant I had figured this whole thing out.
Except... I didn't.
Because underneath all those climaxes was a quiet, gnawing ache.
Corporate job.
Chaotic trauma responses.
A few too many drinks a week that kept tearing apart intimacy.
Pleasure that felt like I was scratching an itch.
A desperate need to control the outcome.
So what did I do?
I chased more.
More orgasms.
More intensity.
More anything... hoping it would finally fill that void.
Spoiler alert: it didn’t and it never could.
Because the orgasms weren’t the problem.
They were the symptom.
A breadcrumb trail leading me back to my unmet needs, my unspoken truths, my unexplored desires.
Your Pleasure is a Portal
Your orgasmic experience is a mirror into your life.
It's an indicator of where you need to work on to transform.
Maybe you can only orgasm one way.
Your life is craving range. Not routine.
Maybe it takes you “too long.”
Your nervous system might need safety, not speed.
Maybe you orgasm too fast.
Your life could be begging you to slow the fuck down and FEEL.
Or maybe... you’re faking it.
(I forgive you)
That pattern won't just show up in sex! This is likely a whole life pattern! People pleasing, fear of intimacy, playing the “good girl/boy” while quietly starving.
Whatever’s happening between your legs
is not separate from the rest of your life.
Your pleasure holds the same patterns you bring to your career, your creativity, your relationships, your parenting. Everything!
So, what did I do?
Well, luckily, I found Neo Tantra.
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I started exploring my pleasure as if it were sacred, as if it were about embodiment and truth, not just orgasm.
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I started to go slower and feel my own energy ignited by the pleasure.
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And that was difficult. For me and my trauma, it was easier to go fast and skip all the best parts because that is where the problems lived.
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It was easier to just go straight to the orgasm. But that's exactly what made me feel empty at the end!
Neo Tantra got me on the path, and coaching got me to epic pleasure and devotional love!
I have personally been coached for over 40 hours in this methodology from a peer coach because I want to go deeper than anyone I lead.
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And what did I find in that time?
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I created safety, love, and acceptance for my inner child
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I rewrote my relationship to my problematic father
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I regenerated my nervous system after a pile of trauma
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I believed I could actually get my desires
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I discovered how my pleasure was not serving me and new tools for expanding into pleasure
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I learned how to let go of control and surrender
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I created a relationship I'm so fucking proud of
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I rippled out this healing into the rest of my life, this is not just sex and love coaching, it's whole-life liberation that starts with pleasure.
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Love is undeniably linked to pleasure as well. Pleasure and love are where we are the most vulnerable.
Wherever you’re most blocked in pleasure and love… that’s where your greatest liberation lives.
That’s the fire we follow.
And the wildest part?
You don’t need years to access soul-shaking, spine-tingling, truth-soaked orgasms that heal your whole life. With the right 1:1 guidance, things shift fast.
Like… session-one fast.
Who's the Coach?
Hi, I'm Lona!
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A Neo Tantra Teacher and Sexual Bliss Coach trained in the epic 600-hour VITA methodology by Layla Martin! It combines ancient holistic Tantric practices, like breath, movement, sound, energy, and mindfulness, with cutting edge somatic healing tools, like internal family systems, parts work, and inner child healing, to bring you whole-life liberation through your sexuality!
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I've used these very tools to go from 10 unfulfilling orgasms a day to epic full-body pleasure that liberates me from my past pain and trauma.
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I never take you anywhere I haven't already been, and I promise to hold you in a safer space of open and judgement-free exploration when we work together. ​
This is the container I wish I had years ago!
Before the wild orgasms.
Before the Goddess awakening.
Before I realized my sex life was a mirror for everything else.
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I had the orgasms.
Like… A LOT of them.
And I still felt disconnected.
Lonely.
A little numb.
A little like I was pretending to be “that girl” (the confident one, the sexy one, the one who could fuck anyone) when deep down, I didn’t feel safe. Or seen. Or… home in my own body, in my own pleasure.
And that's what no one tells you
It's not about how many times you can climax or how many partners you have
How fully you can surrender and receive, or hold space.
It's about how deeply you can feel into your own body, your own experience.
How honestly and fully you can love.
That's why I created this Sexual Liberation Coaching
Because your pleasure is not a bonus.
It’s the portal.
To your softness & strength.
To your power & surrender.
To your truth & expression.
To your whole-life liberation.
This is 1-1 guidance for men, women, and non-binary people ready to claim their most epic pleasure and devotional love!
Inside this container, we’ll melt shame, rewire pleasure pathways, and awaken your full-body fuck yes to epic pleasure and devotional love!
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You’ll learn to:
💦 Access orgasmic energy beyond just climax
💬 Integrate old pains and traumas
🔥 Reclaim your sensuality and wildness
💗 Love every piece of yourself
🌹 Heal the blocks that are holding you back in every part of life
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This is nervous system support meets sacred sexuality meets radical permission.
We go deep. We move. We hold nothing back.
Which Archetype is You?
These are some archetypes I serve in my coaching. These are not rigid categories, but patterns of embodiment, shaped by trauma, culture, gender roles, and spiritual confusion. They’re invitations for recognition and evolution.
Sexual Liberation Coaching is for the person who’s soul is whispering, “I want more.”
More intimacy.
More sovereignty.
More slow, rich, soul-wrecking pleasure.
And maybe you don’t even know what that looks like yet.
That’s okay.
We’ll find it together.
You're still here so I know your body is tingling with a yes, so let's get on a complimentary Bliss Blueprint Discovery Call together to see if this is a match! I offer gifts and bonuses just for getting on the call! And there's no icky sales tactics. We're just seeing if we are a good fit to work together.
Want more of the juicy details?
I sell coaching sessions in packages only. This is not a one session and done style of healing. Most people will take 10-30 one-on-one sessions to embody their liberation! You've had these challenges over a lifetime! To fully integrate all your desires, including your unconscious blocks, it takes time.
I have three coaching packages to choose from!
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Total Liberation (30 sessions)
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Ecstatic Embodiment (20 sessions)
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Flowing Bliss (10 sessions)
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The Secrets to Male Sexuality (10 sessions)
Each session is 60-minutes and it's all online via video chat, so you're comfortable in your own space. You will need privacy from people, pets, kids, and distractions. And you'll want to feel safe enough to make noise in the sessions.
You'll see me either once a week or every other week, which means the coaching can take 3 months to a year or more depending on the package.
Safety is always my top priority. I am trauma-informed, so I will be able to guide you through anything that comes up.
I have many guided audios that you'll receive throughout our work together to help you go deeper between sessions. Homework is optional and encouraged!
Is this you?
My sexual liberation coaching is for those who feel like something deeper is calling, but don't know how to access it. It’s for the ones who've done the therapy, read the books, done the retreats and still sense there’s more aliveness, more freedom, more pleasure in their bodies that hasn't yet been unlocked safely.
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This work is for you if:
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You’ve experienced sexual trauma or shame and are ready to rewrite the story from power and pleasure.
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You crave an erotic life that feels sacred, sovereign, and wildly alive (not performative or disconnected).
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You’re curious about Neo Tantra, energy work, full body orgasms, sensual embodiment, and how to access your sexuality in an integrated, safer, and practical way.
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You're done with surface-level fixes. You're ready for the deep, messy, beautiful work of coming home to yourself.
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You want to feel turned on by life, not just in the bedroom, but in every cell of your being.​
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This is for women, men, and non-binary people of all sexual orientations, skill levels, and relationship styles who want to reclaim their erotic energy as a source of healing, joy, and power.
The hardest part is making the choice...
I wanted to go to therapy for years before I let my life get so out of control I didn't have a choice anymore. I made the choice so many times to go then my body wouldn't let me make the call. I remember being stuck with my finger on the button, afraid of what would happen if I opened the dam.
And in that time that I couldn't pull the trigger, my relationships deteriorated, my pleasure kept feeling empty and I felt broken. But I wasn't broken! I just needed guidance to lead me into a space I knew nothing about! Therapy helped me in many ways to survive, but coaching helped me thrive beyond my wildest dreams!
My relationship makes me pinch myself every single day. My love overflows like a ripe summer peach just bitten. And my pleasure is outrageous! And this healing didn't just stop there. I am less controlling in my life. I am more calm in stressful situations. I meet new pain with an open heart and acceptance of life. Everything changed because I made that one impossible choice to start.
Remember that your resistance comes in an equal and opposite push to your desire. Don't let it stop you now. ​​
I didn't think I had the time either...
I was always searching for a quick fix. I thought I was just one hack away from healing this trauma. And yet, I struggled daily with it. I wasted hours and years of my life stressing about my trauma and unable to create the relationships of my dreams. I hurt people because I wasn't healing myself.
I used to overthink and then drink, and numb with tv and social media. Now? All that time is used however I want, all because I made the time investment to truly make a lasting change. And that's just not going to be found in the next breathwork class, or reiki session, or plant medicine week in Peru. Sure, those things will help, but they won't create lasting change because you're not integrating the root of the issues in your system.
Coaching is just 60-minutes a week (or every other). What time will that truly save you? What relationships could that save you? Most of my clients find that this one session a week pays dividends in time they save overthinking and heartbroken from destroying another relationship. Plus, the coaching is temporary, it isn't designed to last for years and years like therapy. We go deep and I bring you back home.
Paying is a Portal, too.
No one just has the money lying around waiting to be spent on healing. I paid 5-figures to get this epic coaching certification, and something about paying that huge amount of money called me in even deeper. It set the stakes higher. It made me show up in ways I wouldn't have if it was cheaper. It helped liberate me to pay that much. I know that if you want this enough you will be able to find a way. And I respect you for it. Plus, there are payment plans available (as low as $666 a month).
And remember that this isn't about the dollar value of the sessions, it's about the liberation you're going to feel in your life! And that's worth more than I'm charging, I promise!
Your partner will benefit just as much as you!
Maybe you share a bank account or life with someone, and you want their approval before you buy something like this. Well, let me tell you who is going to benefit the most from your sexual liberation, besides you... it's them! So, when you pitch this to them, pitch it as an investment in your future together. Your sexual liberation will be a gift to them, too.
Think about the long nights in deep pleasure together getting lost in orgasm after orgasm! Think about how it has held you back before. This isn't just for you, it's for your relationships, too! And remember to ask for support, not permission! This is your life to claim!
And can you be resourceful without them if they do say no? You'll be even more empowered in the work to do it yourself!
Fear is what's kept you exactly where you are.
I was trapped in my own fear loop for years. It kept telling me I wasn't worthy of healing, that I wasn't capable, that I was the one it could never work for. No one was like me. I swore never to share my story with anyone. And yet here I am sharing it with so many people and liberating them through it!
My greatest fear is now my biggest ally in helping others! So, don't let the fear hold you back. There are no guarantees, but I can promise you I will keep showing up for you and use every tool in my belt to help. The hardest choice is the decision to start. Let me guide you through it all.
Let's Do It
There's no pressure to buy on a Discovery Call. It is there to help see if we are a good fit to work together by me asking you lots of questions about your desires around pleasure and love. There are also exclusive bonuses and gifts available for getting on the call with me, plus payment plans are available! We'll learn if we are a fit for each other and then if we're not, you can continue your search for your next portal to liberation with no regrets!