Want Your Business to Soar? Start With Your Pleasure & Love.
- Lona

- Apr 22
- 2 min read

Unfortunately, your business and career are highly connected to your pleasure and love. Fortunately, you can heal it in your pleasure and it will ripple back out to your business! There is an inherent connection between these two seemingly opposite forces. And there's a way to hack the systems and come out on top for both! Get your business to soar!
Why are they connected? And you may be rolling your eyes now thinking I'm going to go into some philosophical explanation. But no. This is neuroscience!
Your brain protects what is most vulnerable, which it perceives as intimate loving relationships. You're most vulnerable here because your brain sees it as life or death for you to get into these relationships. Imagine 20,000 years ago, when humans needed a tribe to survive. Humans could not survive well on their own. We needed a group to stay safe, fed, and to procreate. You've heard it before: humans are social creatures.
This means that if you were not accepted by the group, you were not going to be safe, fed, or able to procreate. And this started when you were a baby, fully dependent on your parents. The parent relationship really defines a lot in your brain. How your parents demonstrated love, is how you perceive love as an adult. And your brain doesn't easily let go of this imprint, because it sees this as a life or death situation.
So, your brain protects what is most vulnerable. But how does this affect business? Because these patterns the brain learns in love (like people pleasing, freezing, self esteem, and more) ripple out into the rest of your life. So, where you're blocked or thriving in pleasure and love, you'll be blocked or thriving in business.
Think about it. If you can't speak up for your desires in sex, then you likely won't be able to speak up for your needs in business either. If you don't have confidence in pleasure, then you're going to struggle with confidence in your career. And people go about healing this backwards.
They think if they take a new business course, or work on speaking up in the boardroom that it will solve the problem. And you can work on aspects of this, but true revolution in your brain happens by going to the root of these issues and transforming them there! Then the transformation ripples out to the rest of your life! Not the other way around.
So, if your business or career isn't thriving, then maybe it's time to look at a somatic approach to your pleasure and love. Hey, that's what I do in Sexual Liberation Coaching! It's about creating whole-life liberation through your sexuality, because now you know the root of this is hiding in your sexuality, not in your business!
INSPIRED ACTION: What do you perceive as your biggest issue in your business or career? What's really holding you back from your wildest dreams? Now look at that same issue in your sexuality, love, relationships, or pleasure. Do you see a pattern?



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